Neighbors – inevitable acquaintances

You have a right to live your life as you wish. If you are tired of your parents, you may settle somewhere far from them. If you are sick and tired of your wife or husband, you can leave him/her and start new life. If you are fed up with your friends, it is much easier to get rid of them. However, it is almost impossible to get rid of your neighbors. You are doomed to live close to them. If your life closely to your neighbors is unbearable, you can act in the same way as in case with parents but they don’t deserve so much honor. When you leave your parents, you look like a winner and a fighter for freedom. However, when you move for another place because of your neighbors, you look like a loser, as you were forced to move because of the conditions they created. Even in case you have friendly relations with your neighbors, you hate them somewhere deep within your heart, because this friendship is very often motivated by absence of choice. Either you will have friendly relations with them or your life will be unbearable. That is why, understanding that the very absence of choice has caused friendliness of your relations with your neighbors. Friendly relations with neighbors are always the most vivid manifestation of hypocrisy. They are characterized by false smiling, trademark phrases and total insincerity. Despite all these negative features, you are doomed to have friendly relations with your neighbors. You have to put up with this situation and that is all.