Behind the wall

There is no way for one to have no neighbors. No matter where you live in, whether it is apartment or house you will still have neighbors and will have to meet them sooner or later. They are people of the next door and what is the most terrible fact they are sometimes people behind the wall. They can be the most kind people n the whole world, but this occasion is more exception than a rule. And, as a rule those people behind the wall are the noisiest and the most annoying people in the world and it seems like they have only one dream n their lives and that dream is to ruin your calm and to sun your life and to kill all those kind feelings you have towards people. They are people to show you that this life is not as great as you may thought it to be. They always have schedule different of yours and so when you are sleeping they have fun, and when you have fun they are sleeping. So, it is you who come to tell them they should never listen for music so loud and the very next day it is them standing and yelling behind your door.

The girl next door

In most cases people are talking about those problems they have with their neighbors. And it is common because it rare happens so that people who live together are satisfied with their neighbors. Though, there is not just a negative side of this question. There is always the positive side and there is such a side in the question about neighbors. As a rule those grown up neighbors quarreling with each other and them rare find the mutual understanding. But, young people have nothing to fight for and have nothing to share and so they usually have no problems with their neighbors. So, they care about this life only and often it happens that people fall in love with those people next door. It often happens that boy and girls who are neighbors fall in love with each other and it is a great neighborhood they have. They can spend as much time together as they want. So, if there is a bright side of neighborhood than maybe it is better for grown up to follow the behavior of kids… People should think more about love and less about their trash cans

Happy Neighbours

Happy neighbours are a blessing and a gift, and we can all have a hand in helping maintain happy neighbours. While there are neighbours that choose to stay quietly to themselves, there is a rising sense of community that many neighbours are sharing. In many cases, the neighbourhoods of today are becoming small families that share many holidays and good times together. If you are fortunate enough to stumble into one of these neighbourhoods, it is important that you are a good neighbour in return. You don’t want to be the one to upset the balance of happiness on the block.When you move into a neighbourhood and look around, you might find that there are plenty of people who are willing to greet you, meet you, and of course, welcome you. This is a strong indication that you have some pretty happy neighbours. Look around a bit before you start to change your home and find out if the neighbourhood has any basic rules or regulations. Some do even if they are not gated communities. These neighbourhoods are often those that are in historical districts or are in the city. While you are out socializing with your new happy neighbours, ask questions, learn what you can, and sit back to be absorbed by a very joyful group of people who are grateful for your presence. This is part of the balance that keeps happy neighbours exercising their joy and acceptance in their little corner of the world.

Wonderful Neighbours

I am really lucky to have so wonderful neighbours. But it’a a pity not all of us can say these words. The majority of people who live in blocks of flats complain on the horrible neighbours. As my experience shows, all the good neighbours are the same and all the bad ones can be of the most different kinds. The most popular of them are:
young people who prefer to listen to hard rock late at night and to organise noisy parties,
people who seem to know when to start the redecoration of thie flat as it always happens in the most unsuitable or unexpectable moment,
neighbours who live over you and often forget to turn off running water so that you have to make redecoration afterwards,
neighbours who live under you and complain on your being not careful with running water when the water from your upper neighbours flows down.
There are certainly some other rare types of the neighbours such as old women with wonderful few dozen of beloved cats which produce unpleasant smell or just married couple who regulary shout, break plates and then make it up. If you live with such neighbours, think about moving to the country or buying a separate house as it seems to me to be the only way out.

Temporary neighbors

Neighbors can be divided into two parts: your lifelong neighbors, with whom you live and occasional ones. You come across them when you spend your leave at a recreation center or when you stay at a hotel for several nights. We all have problems with our neighbors, but we understand that we are doomed to live beside them and we have to put up with them. Unlike our lifelong neighbors, our temporary neighbors live beside us for a short period of time. That is why we have a wonderful opportunity to have it out, when they behave badly. If you are a risky person and like adventures, you will consider your quarrels with your neighbors as a sort of a game. You can have a god time and have fun from the heart. In any case, you won't see these people any longer. Nothing can spoil your further life. In this case, no matter how the events are developing, everything will be ok; you will return home and will go on keeping friendship with your lifelong neighbors. Quarreling with your neighbors is the most pleasant pastime and the best way to spend your leave. Just try and you will understand that this is true. If you are a calm person and don't like quarrels and arguments, you are a bore. Calmness and silence is available at home, and such an entertainment as having it out is rarely available. That is why never miss your chance.

Neighbors – inevitable acquaintances

You have a right to live your life as you wish. If you are tired of your parents, you may settle somewhere far from them. If you are sick and tired of your wife or husband, you can leave him/her and start new life. If you are fed up with your friends, it is much easier to get rid of them. However, it is almost impossible to get rid of your neighbors. You are doomed to live close to them. If your life closely to your neighbors is unbearable, you can act in the same way as in case with parents but they don’t deserve so much honor. When you leave your parents, you look like a winner and a fighter for freedom. However, when you move for another place because of your neighbors, you look like a loser, as you were forced to move because of the conditions they created. Even in case you have friendly relations with your neighbors, you hate them somewhere deep within your heart, because this friendship is very often motivated by absence of choice. Either you will have friendly relations with them or your life will be unbearable. That is why, understanding that the very absence of choice has caused friendliness of your relations with your neighbors. Friendly relations with neighbors are always the most vivid manifestation of hypocrisy. They are characterized by false smiling, trademark phrases and total insincerity. Despite all these negative features, you are doomed to have friendly relations with your neighbors. You have to put up with this situation and that is all.

Neighbors

There are so many people in the Earth that they live very close to each other. Population density is very high. That is why we all have neighbors. People who live without neighbors are either foresters or hermits. Thus we are doomed to have neighbors. This is a very good luck when you have good neighbors. Not very many people are so lucky. The generalized image of neighbors is very negative. Neighbors usually quarrel with each other, find fault with each other for mess and untidiness. Neighbors rarely become friends. It means that people in general are unfriendly and rude to each other. At first, when people get acquainted with each other, everything is ok, but later things change radically. Friendly relations change into a fight and so on. It is so very understandable, because it is often very difficult to find mutual understanding with your relatives to say nothing getting along with your neighbors. There is a stereotype in our society that neighbors should be enemies. I think that this stereotype in most cases determines relationships with neighbors in reality. Besides, people are egoistic and egocentric by nature and never want to compromise. The art of compromise is available to a handful of people. Those who master this art are the luckiest people in the world as they have an opportunity to live their lives without quarrels and having it out. We must learn to find mutual understanding with each other and respect each other. Only thus we will reach harmony in our relations. We must realize that we suffer from our inability to find mutual understanding at first.